How Postpartum Depression Feels?

I love my baby, but what why am I so sad? I am happy to be a mom, but do I feel so anxious and hopeless. Why do I constantly worry about the well-being of my child? Yes, transition from womanhood to motherhood can be difficult.You've welcomed your beautiful new baby to the world and have now brought him home. Having a new baby can be an exciting and joyous event. But it can also leave many new parents, moms especially, feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Some moms might feel that compared to the first few weeks of life with a newborn, childbirth was the easy part. Between the endless feedings, sleepless nights and other responsibilities, many women feel really, really tired and overwhelmed after birth. You may find it hard to balance taking care of a new baby, yourself, your family and your home. Take comfort in knowing that baby blues, are normal process of your hormones.These feelings of agitation, sadness and frustration are normal. You can take steps to help you find more energy and overcome new mom fatigue.  Although if your symptoms continue for more than a few weeks after birth than you might be experiencing,  Postpartum depression. PPD  is a treatable medical illness that affects about 13% of women after giving birth. . Postpartum depression can be hard to spot, because the moodiness and other symptoms are similar to the "baby blues", short state that affects up to 70% of new mothers. Some new mothers, may also have symptoms of anxiety as a symptom of postpartum depression.. You may feel nervous, frightened, restless, or stressed. Some women have intense worry about their baby's health or safety. If you constantly feel overwhelmed by the responsibility of caring for your newborn, or if nerves interfere with your ability to handle everyday tasks, it could be a sign of postpartum depression. I remember that a client, recalled this time of her as bitter- sweet. She mentioned that the intense feelings of love and sadness at the same time, was a vicious cycle of confusion and worry. Most woman, feel as if they are broken that they can't function, and take care of their newborn. The first step, is knowing that you need help, getting to a place that is comfortable for you. You are not broken , and there are ways you can get relief. Most whom, seek help recover completely from all their symptoms with in 5-7 weeks. Seek professional help, find balance and believe that you can get through this transition period always remembering that you did your best.

Child Molestation and abuse- Commentary on http://www.jewishcommunitywatch.org/the-child-rape-assembly-line/

http://www.jewishcommunitywatch.org/the-child-rape-assembly-line/
In the past few months, there has been a great amount of deliberation about sexual abuse towards children and our community. This article brings me so much sadness, but than there is relief, that someone as courageous as this man, has given his being and identity to bring some awareness to these acts of abuse. As stated in the article, about 70% acts of abuse, happens from a person the child knows and trusts. Unfortunately these, sick individuals pry on the innocence of children and once they feel they can be trusted they take action. As parents, we are and have to be the biggest advocates for our youth, and that starts with clear communication. I say clear, because some parents believe that culturally is not proper to teach children the correct names of their private parts and or speak to young children about sexual and individual privacy. If you teach your child that they have a head, two hands, and two feet, why wouldn't you tell them the correct name for their genitals? Speaking with your children, about their privacy and body parts needs to be normalized and spoke about often. Allow them to feel comfortable to speak with you, if they have felt uncomfortable by anyone. The painful scars of, Sexual abuse and molestation are not only physically but mentally and scars remain and affects individuals socially. “The feeling of betrayal heals, but is never erased.” Many, individuals whom are not permitted, to share the pain of their abuse and loss of their innocence often, grow to have many problems from sexual dysfunction and sexual identity disorder, to depression and anxiety. They become afraid to trust those around them, and than imagine how life would look like for your child if they could never trust anyone?